Here we are, September 18, the kids have been going to their new school now for a little over two weeks.
How is it going??
Elias:
He is really trying to make new friends. After the first week, he still had no one to hang out with during the play times, he said he would just walk the playground by himself, followed by Alyssa.
When I ask about the other boys in his classroom, he says that they run away from him.
I felt awful and by the end of that first week I was a wreck, I so longed to go back to CA and to have him be at his old school with best friends where he knows everyone, all teachers even the director. That is not going to happen here soon and I was wishing we hadn't decide to move back to Belgium.
I talked to his teacher about this and she explained that it does take a few weeks for them to make new friends (so I was overreacting, expecting too much in that first week). If by the end of September they don't have friends, they will work on it. OK then....
Yesterday he told me he was playing with a boy from his class (I think his name is
Kenzo, but I'm not sure). Although he said it wasn't really a new friend because they haven't played together enough yet (he understands the concept of friend I assume).
Mendel:
According to her teacher, Mendel plays with everyone in her class, but as soon as it is playtime, she seeks out Caitlin and they made friends with two other English speaking kids in preschool and the four of them hang out together. These two English speaking kids just arrived in Belgium from CA as well, Santa Rosa more precisely. The mom is Belgian but only spoke English with her kids so they don't speak Dutch either. I'm OK because Mendel needs to practice her English, but I wonder when Caitlin will even learn Dutch...
Oh, there was one girl in particular that Mendel seemed to like in the beginning, but not anymore and you know why? Because this girl is so messy (she spills her chocolate drink) and Mendel is afraid she will spill on her (oh no - not on clean freak Mendel)...
I am trying to hook them up together again..
So, as you see, we are settling in, even at the new school. There is still much more to get to know there, but tonight I am going to the local version of a MAPA meeting so that should help too.